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Hi

I get notices that I have had comments on here but Ill be buggered if I can find them..lol. So I post on Land of Milk and Honey to find an ANR partner. I got loads of replies mostly well no actuall all time wasters. What tends to happen is after initial contact and a chat, they stop at one of my requests, so if they send a photo, they wont send a contact number if they send a contact number they wont arrange a date to meet. Its all so stupid because people on that site complain there are no really women well believe me there are no real men. Then a guy contact me from there who started threatening me a real nut job, I told my BF whose reaction eventually was to stop talking to me (well hes not into ANR and I think he thought if someone was contacting me for any reason it made him vulnerable? I dont know, of course I didnt explain I was looking for ANR).

So Im single again, I have no idea how I could find a partner, this city is huge but it seems impossible so I may have to give up my dream and move on.

I wish I had better news but thats where I am right now. Oh and as you can see Ive caught the sun :-)

Thank you for your comments

Hi

A lovely chap called Boris has post lots of comments which was wonderful to come home too. Id still like to lactate but the partner who wants to do this evades me. My breasts are swollen and very sensitive. Im a 36F now and some of my bras dont fit. I find when men suckle sexually they are too harsh and I prefer that to gentler suckling but I have read that it is the gentler motion that might produce milk. I wonder why men dont want to latch on for so long? A few minutes yes but they get carried away by sex, which I think is very sad. So Im sorry no great news to report, but ever hopeful. So I thought Id leave you with a current foggy photos of my breasts. The thing is lactation, sucking, breastfeeding its all so sexual! And wonderdul.

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I just found some comments I didnt know I had so thank to all those who have read my blog more than I expected!

Im on my period which as you may know has made my breasts swell. My breasts are so large that no matter what I wear you couldnt fail but see them. In a normal dress pressed together they stand firm like something out of a Emily Bronte Empire line dress...which is funny.

The result is men standing over me on the bus or the tube and looking down int the soft mounds of my breasts almost licking their lips. I like it, it amuses me to be reading look up and see a man lightly blush and look away. As you know all this sun just makes everyone frisky its great.


Unfortunately Ive been ill with bronchitus for sometime now, no Im not a smoker..lol. The Doc gave me antibiotics and I had a bad reaction and was covered in a painful rash for a week or so, thank god its pretty much gone now but I still have the cough. It meant I couldnt go out in the sun so have missed all this wonderful weather!

Its has also meant I have put on quite a bit of weight as I havent been able to exercise and my breasts 36F are now larger, I dont really want to know how they have expanded, so stuff them into the bras I have.

I have an almost complete obession with 1940/50s lingerie, big white lacy pants, bullet bras, girdles, corsets, stockings, suspenders, black patent heels. My favourite shop was in Brick Lane and has just shut down! Ive contemplate trying to buy wholesale from America just to get what I want. I just bought these on ebay, not everyones cup of tea but I like them and the stockings. So if anyone knows of somewhere in London I can buy cheap retro lingerie please let me know.

As to breastfeeding well I live in hope, I was contact by someone who was all for it but came on too strong and I found myself not contacting him though we want the same thing, perhaps because its my time of the month.

Please Please if you have a comment post so people can read and join in and if you have any ideas how I might get more readers/people involved let me know, Id just love that!

The Marmet Technique

Sorry I couldnt put the images in order near the text but Im sure you can match them up....

How to Manually Express Breastmilk - The Marmet Technique

Draining the Milk Reservoirs

1. Position the thumb (above the nipple) and first two fingers (below the nipple) about 1” to 1–1/2” from the nipple, though not necessarily at the outer edges of the areola. Use this measurement as a guide, since breasts and areolas vary in size from one woman to another. Be sure the hand forms the letter “C” and the finger pads are at 6 and 12 o’clock in line with the nipple. Note the fingers are positioned so that the milk reservoirs lie beneath them.

• Avoid cupping the breast

2. Push straight into the chest wall



• Avoid spreading the fingers apart.
• For large breasts, first lift and then push into the chest wall

3. Roll thumb and fingers forward at the same time. This rolling motion compresses and empties milk reservoirs without injuring sensitive breast tissue.

Note the position of thumb and fingernails during the finish roll as shown in the illustration.

4. Repeat rhythmically to completely drain reservoirs.
• Position, push, roll...
• Position, push, roll...

5. Rotate the thumb and fingers to milk other reservoirs, using both hands on each breast.

Avoid These Motions

1. Do not squeeze the breast, as this can cause bruising.

2. Sliding hands over the breast may cause painful skin burns.

3. Avoid pulling the nipple which may result in tissue damage.

Wow Its already 2011

Hi

I havent written for ages, needless to say I STILL havent found my milky partner, Ive come close 100 times but theres always an issue of time, distance, etc.

My biggest disappointment was I contact by a gynecologyst out of the blue, offering to help me milk faster with breast massage lessons and drugs. Like alot of others he was just after titilation..lol. Im not even sure he was a real Gyne?

His suggestion was of great interest it was to have a hormonal injection which mimiced your bodys reaction after birth, increasing and speeding up the chance of lactation. After weeks of talking he just disappeared we'd just been talking online.

Also over all these years I have tried to get pregnant and no luck there either, but I still have the lust and passion to do this. Truth be told Im more into breastfeeding a grown man than a baby.

Well if only I could find a Gyne to help me, I could do what I dream of set up as an adults wet nurse, just the name makes me wet.

If anyone has any ideas how I could get more people to get involved with this blog Id be grateful, it would be more fun if it wasnt just my thoughts and ideas. Other than that Im fine, I hope to add to this more often!

Afternoon

Well my blog seems to have put people off!? Im more likely to write if you let me know youre reading :-)

If you have nay stories to share or ideas or even why you love the idea of being breastfed please let me know.

As for me well my cold is getting better and with it my determination to make my milking obession a reality this time.

More info ive just found

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I thought this was intersting, Im also going to try and reconnect with the ANR group though I havent had much luck meeting anyone through there. Ive never really tried to get a group together through my blog but I thouhgt Id give it a go now.

Im hopefully going to see the gyno this weekend to get my hormone injection to help me milk sooner fingers crossed.

ive added a couple of photos as I love breast and breastfeeding photos dont you.

If anyone can add info or inspiring pics to my blog please do. Or your experience of breastfeeding?

INFO BIT:-
Hormonal therapy to induce lactation generally consists of administration of estrogen to simulate the high-estrogen state of pregnancy. The estrogen is then abruptly withdrawn to mimic the rapid hormonal changes following delivery. A course of a prolactin-enhancing drug such as metaclopromide (Reglan.) is then instituted. Sucking stimulation (with a pump or by baby) is begun at this point.

Milk production typically begins between 1-4 weeks after initiating mechanical stimulation. One study of induced lactation using medications describes onset of milk production between 5-13 days. (2) This is similar to case reports of inductions using only nipple stimulation. At first, the mother may see only drops. During the time that milk production is building, women may notice changes in the color of the nipples and areolar tissue. Breasts may become tender and fuller. Some women report increased thirst, and changes in their menstrual cycle or libido.